Am gay and disagree with gay marriage?

I think you're forgetting that at least 1/3 of all marriages are NOT church marriages in the first place. Millions of folks get married by Justices of the Peace. There's nothibng in allowing Gay marriages which forces them to be performed in religous ceremonies, and there's nothing in those laws that would force churches to marry same couples, either. Those marriages that are carried out but Justices of the pice are not, legally, entitled "civil unions," but are entitled marriages, and require a marriage license and are certified with a marriage ceritifacte, just as are religious marriages. I don't agree that marriage is between man and woman and God. Marriage existed long before Christianity, and far outside of Judaism, as well.